Ruby, you are obviously not reading the actual words as they are written, and seeing everything through filters of looking for a fight.

Comment again when you have read what I actually wrote.

I am not telling people what to enjoy. I am stating what I don’t enjoy, and speaking out for others who feel the same as I do. There is nothing wrong with us just because we don’t like what you like.

As far as people knowing themselves, people do know, but people lie to fit in and to follow trends. I think a healthy minded fetishist would be concerned that people are misusing the fetish as a weapon to abuse people.

Some Gay men trying to pass, convince their female partners to peg them so they don’t have to go through the stigma of being out. Some Bisexual men get their woman to peg them so they don’t have to risk the stigma of being thought of as Gay by their straight peers, or because Gays don’t trust them and they don’t want to go through the drama. Some straight men are into pegging because they feel like the most humiliating thing they can think of is being a woman being penetrated. They’ve been told all their lives by feminists that women are some sort of idealized victims, and this becomes a part of their fantasy life.

Denial doesn’t change the facts.

Laugh as much as you like. In the end of the day, you are still a woman, and you still have to choose whether you want to fight the fight for true empowerment or continue to frame yourself as an object. One reason I prefer primal over pegging, I suppose, is because I actually am a strong woman who has seen her share of combat with men. I don’t need to pretend to be a man and wear a penis to dominate someone. The cock has never been the thing that said someone was superior for me.

So I don’t see a whole lot of difference between someone wanting me to wear a rubber penis and fuck him, and him asking me to wear a rubber penis while he fucks me.