We have a few thoughts regarding your text as a heterosexual couple who includes pegging in our sexual life.
A) Either you have vast experience in pegging with various partners from many psychological groupes,
B) You have contact with many very open people experienced in pegging who share their thoughts with you. In this case, do they know what you think about them? It got to be very stressful for you to be surrounded by the people you despite.
C) Your ideas come from the fact that you saw some porn movies and grew on some conclusions from that. If so, I would not advise to you to watch Star Wars. Your vision of world could change abruptly.
If any of this is true, you are either a real masochist, or have no real base knowledge to write on the subject. Making psychological assumptions based on porn actors and actresses is lightly speaking very, very wrong and weird.
So generally what you are saying is that Gay men are so strangely twisted that they ask woman to peg them, instead of just having sex with another men. I am heterosexual but I guess it is much easier to find another male for discreet sex, rather than asking a female to peg. So it has to be a really twisted gay kink. Such men could be called closet hetero. heh
But seriously, I know you try to be provocative but you are only showing disrespect to other people. In our relationship we are both strictly heterosexual and neither of us has any homosexual fantasies. However we like to give myself to each other equally. It is a physical and emotional pleasure. The emotions coming from my absolute trust to her, our love and the fact that she cares for me is immense.
We both never had any fantasies in the past about pegging with earlier partners, and I can tell you we are both experienced. I never wanted to do anything like this with anyone else before. I love her as she is, and this is just another way to make love. And for that we need her to have a dick. It is a dick, because it is the easiest part. And yes, we both find it kinky that she has a dick in that moment. She is not better just different. It does not make her better because we are always equal. There is no competition. We just use a toy to have more opportunities to show love to each other. We are not pretending that I have a pussy. I am satisfied of being a man. Other men are for me so asexual I could not imagine having sex with one. I only fancy women that is why I am heterosexual. Also if she would feel that I am not masculine enough we would not be into it. We change roles not our sexes.
And last but not the least of all. By promoting the idea that anything that two people are doing together can be humiliating and bad, because someone else says so, even though they both like it, you are hurting many people. Most people have so many problems with their sex life misinterpreting and not understanding many basic things in erotic life and feeling guilty for no reasons.
AND PLEASE DO ME A FAVOR (I am the Lady of our happily pegging pair)
When someone is forcing someone into intercourse it is called a rape no matter what they do. When they both like it is a sex no matter what they do. If consensual sex can be treated as a rape, than consent stops to be a distinction of what rape is. We are getting awfully close to saying that non-consensual intercourse doesn’t have to be a rape. AND THAT IS SO WRONG!