however… as a suppliment to my previous comment… I must say this is what I want my reality to reflect… the fact remains that during masturbation my imagination still centres on gay sex. the images that haunt my fantasies are of being dominated by men as a man. and in hindsight i realize that my previous statement may not have been true… that in fact there may still be a question in my mind… I will say that I rather feel this article has clearly defined what i have been going through and been discovering about myself. there is a part of me that does not identify as a girl any longer but as a man who desires to be dominated by men. i feel that if i am to overcome this thing it will have to be to not entertain it with future girlfriends. and even now this article seems even more relevant because the only other option i see is to accept that what i fantasize about when i masturbate is actually what I am… and so I guess I haven’t really answered the question which is why I remain anonymous regarding this subject.