IronWynch, I hope its not to late to have you read my comment. Thank you so much for speaking the truth about this topic. I could not agree more. If one is male and you want someone to put on an instrument that is the spitting image of a penis, shaped like a penis, or in anyway resembles a projectile, that male is at the very least bi and more likely a homosexual. Its time to stop allowing women like this Ruby ryder and her male and female supporters to dictate what is heterosexual or normal. It is a cultural agenda that declares everythingis OK and there is no such thing as gender or sexuality is a sliding scale. Ridiculous. Thank you for taking a stand . Stan