I Just Read Way Too Much

DOMINANCE. When sex of any kind is described as DOMINANCE, which is not what sex is, then it is clear the persons have some issues. When I have sex with a woman I am not dominating her. When any male animals copulates in nature he is not dominating the female.

You need to understand what a phallic symbol is. Small or big the strap on or dildo is a phallic piece made to represent nature ie the penis.