It is not enough now to merely be a heterosexual and tolerate those who have different orientations. Now, to truly combat misogyny in the eyes of folks like Schwyzer, one must be fully open to participating in homosexual acts.
If you are a heterosexual male uncomfortable with the idea of partaking in a homosexual act, you are…
a) promoting the perpetuation of a misogynistic culture
b) showing that you’re not comfortable in your own sexuality
c) promoting homophobia (which is now, apparently, also analogous to woman-hate)
Going by this logic, any male who is not open to participating in a homosexual act is now presumed to be insecure and, therefore, deemed secretly gay or bi.
Males who are open to those acts are deemed tolerant and worthy combatants against sexism and misogyny. Their open performance of these acts also essentially renders them gay or bi, just like their less “open” peers.
Meanwhile, the actual homosexuals (gay and bi men) are still as they always were.
Where does this logic leave us, then?
EVERY MAN IS GAY OR BI.
So it’s not just me. I’m catching a little hell from a Domme about my pegging article, who thinks I’m trying to say that there’s something morally wrong with pegging. What I’m actually saying is that I, as a mostly heterosexual woman, do not like it, nor do most. I prefer dominant men who don’t need me to play around with their poop, and if at all, at least not at a level above a finger or two for prostate stimulation.
Pegging is something else entirely, and involves the use of what is essentially a prosthetic penis, or a large penis thrusting in and out of the anus, as opposed to wiggling to reach a target. If an amputee’s partner prefers they wear their prosthetic arm or leg during sex, it is clear their partner wishes they had their limb still attached. If a woman’s partner prefers she be wearing a prosthetic penis, then it’s just as clear that he wishes she has a penis. Otherwise, she would just be using her fingers or a small specially angled dildo in her hand.
If the body matters, and the body needs to be a male body, then it matters that the body isn’t actually male…and sooner or later, that is going to matter enough that her being female with a prosthetic won’t be enough.
Whether or not the guy himself is homosexual, the activity certainly is meant to mimic homosexual sex.