Thank you for the birthday wish 🙂 So far, so good. I think it’s going to be one of the most interesting years of my life. I seem to be a late bloomer like my aunt Mamie, but I was just in denial about it.

About the vaginal availability thing, I got it articulated from the male side some years ago in a conversation with a much older friend. He was also the guy who ultimately won against his harpy ex wife through simply maintaining the respect and admiration of his daughters when all else had failed.

One of his booty calls, he described as a hideous woman with an awesome pussy. I didn’t know if to laugh or express disgust. He wasn’t so far gone as to actually mistreat her, and he liked her well enough to actually spend time with her. They were just both so set in their ways that actually being in a full blown romantic relationship didn’t really suit them. However, it proved to me that looks don’t exactly have the importance that many people consciously think they do.

If “objective” looks don’t hold that much sway, especially as a guy gets older, then ethnicity definitely doesn’t. All it determines is whether or not a girl will be perceived as valuable. Some guys don’t have a way to describe “not valuable” except as “ugly” because to say that Black women are not valuable reveals that they are racist. So instead, they say that Black women are ugly, and justify it basically the same way pseudoscientists of the past justified their belief that we were inferior across the board.

I find it fascinating that the same sort of data has just been recycled for a different purpose. Saying that we were inferior didn’t keep White guys from shagging us, but saying that we’re ugly works for public recognition purposes, and is more politically correct.

It’s still considered okay to say that one is assigning a woman default whore/slut status because she’s ugly.