Thank you for the compliment, Secret 🙂

You’re right about the solutions, and I do these things offline.

I think my friend’s suicide, and another friend’s decline into predatoriness recently, have just made me wonder if it’s worth discussing relationships at all. I’m now leaning more towards just being a sounding board instead of offering any realism, advice, or direct encouragement. It seems that some people either get it or they don’t, and the ones who do, don’t need advice. The ones who don’t get it may just be doomed no matter what.

Maybe I should just stand back, and let nature take its course. I just don’t know yet if my motivation for taking that route is a cop out or if I’ve figured something out that is reality based.