Hi Poetry 🙂

Of course their perspective is biased towards the negative. It’s just that well, like the Bible story of Balaam’s donkey, one can’t discount a truth just because of its source. These are people who have a lot of casual sex, but that puts them in the best position to know what’s really going on out there.

Compared to Anoukange, I’m definitely not as “hot”, but apparently much better treated.

So the new knowledge has made me a better me. Now I don’t need to have feelings of hostility when telling a guy no. This just makes it easier to be gracious about it.

The type of people I attract are apparently very loving people who don’t deserve the label “user”. They just need to understand that the kind of women they apparently like, if they’re selecting women like me, function better in well defined relationships. If a guy is letting us float in limbo, we consider ourselves unattached, and don’t want to give the benefits of attachment to people we’re unattached to.