Well, anytime something becomes popular, you’re going to have to sort through tons of poser to get to the genuine. If someone doesn’t have a photo, just don’t bother. This is someone who is either fake or insecure about her looks.

Dommes in general are less classically feminine than other women, but the ones who are genuine also don’t have most of the typical insecurities of other women either. So their presentation is going to be kind of “handsome” more than “pretty” usually. Don’t go in expecting a porn fantasy, but don’t be naive either. Some very shitty people have infiltrated the community in the past decade, and even greater numbers since _50 Shades_. Trust your eyes.

A Dominant woman loves herself, and understands life well enough to care about her looks. She’s going to be well groomed and proud…not frumpy unless that’s her gimmick, and then it’s still going to be kind of stylish and stylized for those who like the schoolmarm, naughty nanny, nun, or orthodox thing.