Bruce, I understand the confusion, I think. What I was trying to say is that if I stayed too deep at Roissy’s I was going to lose something I value in myself, which is a respect for men. I noticed a loss of mystery that made me overly sensitive to things men try to and probably need to be able to hide in order to have relationships on Earth and not just with paper or screens.

There is such a thing as too much information. Don’t get me wrong. I’m happy for the knowledge. It’s helped me a lot. It’s just that sometimes I feel like that cat on YouTube who can’t un-see the horror.

This is not a criticism of Roissy or any of the commenters there. It’s just like not being as wowed by a sunrise after you’ve learned astronomy as you were when you first saw it as a child.

It’s good to learn science, but bad if you ever get to the point that it takes away the wonder. I don’t want to lose my wonder for men.