Why, in this paradigm, is the female considered beta to the male?
When I meet a man that can evoke what I now understand to be my preferred sexual experience, non-verbal and yet so communicative, with all the commensurate biting and snarling et alia…I do not feel secondary to him. I am the Alpha Female. We are of equal stature. We hold that which is sacred to & for the other, and cherish each other for it, no?

Forgive my impertinence, I still have my “new car smell” here & I really want to understand…