Wonderfully written. This is the Number 1 reason in India and like number 2 in China for married women over 30 getting h.i.v. Their husbands who after years of coercing her to do things like this against her nature, STILL CHEATS and endangers her. The fact that in India it’s spoken about so definitely by healthcare workers is horrifying. Soon I’ll go to China and it’s scary how with so many men the ones who don’t even want women still gets the girl and honest heterosexual men that may do right by us misses out and we’re put in danger by these men. Plus I’m a foreign woman and men there seem to love foreign women. It’ll be tough weeding them out, so I’m just going to stay to myself. They actually have female h.i.v. villages because of these type of men hurting women.