lol – what you accuse me of – you do, honey – you have OR ELSE written all over your opinions, which you are not representing as your opinions, you are representing them as truth. At least I owned it – you purport yours as the way things “should” be. That takes a very special kind of narrow-mindedness in addition to an extraordinary lack of awareness.

You don’t want to do it? Don’t do it. But don’t try to tell people who enjoy it that you know better than they do about their own bodies and their own orientations. That is, frankly, laughable.