@Amy, I called you a bigot. Africans can be bigots like everyone else. Also, in English, the term “bigot” applies to all sorts, not just racists…and on race, there are a great many lost Africans living in western countries who’ve become self hating bigots who are disconnected from their roots. I wasn’t thinking about your color when responding, as it didn’t matter to me. An assimilant with cultural and spiritual Stockholm syndrome doesn’t deserve more mercy than their captor.

That you jumped to the “fat black woman” stereotype to make your point, rather than the Domme that was both more applicable and obvious, says a lot about your opinion of the fat, the African, and opinionated women. Now we also know how you feel about LARPing/geeks and African spirituality.

My response was more of a “stop being an ass or fuck off” than a “boo-hoo”. It’s my blog.

By the way, in that “ridiculous” picture, I was just after a ceremony for Oshun, the Yoruba Goddess of love and beauty. You might want to be careful about insulting her. Those who turn their nose up to her gifts tend to lose them.