Let me make something clear to you, Albert. One does not need to be rational when it comes to sex. One does not need to be objective when it comes to sex. If something arouses you or doesn’t arouse you, that is your business. Same goes for women. Nobody is obligated to do things with anyone that they don’t want to do.

That is the whole point of this article. If a woman doesn’t like butt stuff, it is wrong to try to coerce her into doing butt stuff. Bonus, if the issue that one is in the closet, and trying to force a woman to act as a male, this is also wrong. Guys need to stop trying to coerce women into doing things that we are not comfortable with. The simple solution is to find someone who is comfortable with it instead of trying to make someone be comfortable with things they are not.

If a man is not comfortable with usually being on top, of if he is not comfortable with being the primary provider, or if he is not comfortable with a little roughness, then I don’t pressure him to be something he is not. I find another dude. See how that works?