I already allowed for the 2nd scenario in the article and in almost every comment I’ve made on the subject. Why is this so hard for you? Why do you have such a problem with the idea that most women are not into pegging, and find the idea or actual experience similar to attempting sex with robotic arms and tweezers at best, and bathing in sewage at worst? Sure some women in the world are sexually aroused by shit. I personally am somewhat aroused by many situations that would scare the living crap out of the average person…but the difference between you and me is that I have no interest in imposing my desires on other people, or even asking that they consider engaging in them in the name of “tolerance” as opposed to actual desire. I’m just not into actually non consensual rape/sex under duress. Duress does not turn me on.
It would be the same issue if I were a 50+ year old man swallowing toxic medications to please my wife. That’s sex under duress too. It’s a marriage. Instead of being tolerant of all sorts of harmful crap, people should be tolerant of life and nature…the fact that different people may want different things, especially over time, and that we don’t stay 20 forever.