Hello, IronWynch, interesting topic.

I am a young Asian woman and I’m proud to say that I am an open minded, non judgmental person who strongly believes that everyone can do whatever they want unless they’re hurting/harming someone in any way.

Your blog has made one and only one good point – If the woman is being threatened/forced to do that in any kind of way, then I agree 100%, she shouldn’t be pegging her partner, he shouldn’t be manipulating her to fulfill his own needs and vice versa.

About my sexuality, I am straight and I like being dominant, the idea of being dominant turns me on very much. Giving pleasure to my partner, seeing his reaction turns me on like crazy. I can not enjoy sex without it.

About my boyfriend’s sexuality, he’s straight, likes being dominated by women, anal play excites him and only because obviously, like most other straight and gay men, he’s sensitive down there.

About our relationship: We love each other, our communication is actually crazy good, we have no secrets, he’s very caring and we are very happy overall even though we face some challenges like every other couple.

About our sex life : We are very open about sex (I’m sure you can tell), we’re into kinky stuff like light-bondage, role plays, anal plays, massages (including prostate) and pegging. He makes sure i orgasm everytime we have sex. He loves giving me head and we do have normal sex. We both fantasize about ourselves when we’re away from each other.

Now, about your article and the comments you wrote:

1. “Feminists have made it a “thing” by promoting the idea that pegging will bring a couple closer together. Indeed it may if the guy is a latent homosexual or near asexual who can’t be stimulated enough through his penis, and doesn’t mind his wife going out to shag more masculine men. For most people who’ve tried it though, it has just made the woman less satisfied with the relationship, and the man left wondering why a woman he basically pressured to be the man, is no longer as interested in him.”

My boyfriend can orgasm easily without being touched in the ass, playing with his anus makes it more exciting and kinky. That is it. He strictly does NOT want me to go out and shag other so called “masculine men”, masculine men can be into pegging as well. Like come on, i’m sure you’re better than this.
We have tried it and your statement is false, i’m very satisfied about how fun and exciting it was and I am willing to do it again.

2. “Look, dudes…if you need a dick in your ass, you are Gay (or Bi). Stop kidding yourselves.”

First off, my boyfriend does NOT need a dick, he enjoys something that stimulates his prostate. And that can be my fingers or a toy. Plus he enjoys femdom and so do I. There, perfect combo for the both of us.
Second, what makes you think that men can’t get off with another man if he’s gay. This is 2016, it’s way more easier to find a gay guy to have discreet sex with than to find a girl who’s into pegging.

3. “There are not hordes of women out there dying to shove dildoes into guys.”

I’m sorry, have you done research on every woman in this world? I DO enjoy and looking forward to freaking peg my boyfriend. And trust me girl, i’m not the only one.

4. “Demanding this from us just convinces us that you are Gay, Bi, or worse, in denial or a pussy.”

This is plain homophobic. Or worse? What do you mean by that?

I will stop here, even though I can keep going. I want you to explain these 4 points as whenever someone make good points against your argument, you dismiss them and keep on repeating what you have already mentioned.

I AM a straight woman and I AM into pegging. Is it “Normal” for some people? No, but for us it is just one of the things we do as a loving couple.
It is beyond ridiculous reading someone actually stating that my boyfriend is gay or bi when it’s clear as a day that he loves me as a woman. How can you be so shallow and disrespectful?

If the article was about men shouldn’t be manipulating women by turning them into a man for their needs, then I would agree completely. But instead, it includes disgusting homophobic, judgmental tones that would hurt innocent people.

Being normal is an illusion and it’s such a shame that there are so many people who still don’t realize that, even though almost everyone has the access to educate themselves and open their eyes.

Ironwynch, next time when you write an article on such sensitive subject, I recommend you to be more respectful to others. You have no right to judge or even worse, label anyone.

I’m sorry for your bad experience but that doesn’t mean every situation would be the same as yours. Please understand that I tried my best to be as polite as possible, and I am interested in what you have to say about the 4 paragraphs I pointed out.