Kelly J
do you understand how homophobia affects men differently than women?
Even to the point where men(family or friends) are afraid to show affection to each other? Yet women can be free to do so, which is also why women are more free to be bisexual.

The closet is a deep dominating place. And women by nature don’t have a penis. And will never know what it is like to penetrate. Get a 11″ dildo and you still won’t know, as he will never know what it feels like to receive pleasure inside as you do.

Just because it isn’t ‘hurting’ someone doesn’t mean it is a good thing psychologically.
People act out a lot of their problems through sex, which is not the purpose.
This is why people think beating, pain, piss, shit, spit, humiliation is sexual. And it isn’t. Those are signs of some serious internal issues. And wrong views of sex. ‘Doing the nasty’ and other terms that show how we view sex. And having to have to do it in the dark, because we see it as bad.

Now at the closet of homophobia and you have men naturally desiring penetration from a woman who does not and cannot have a dick.