Love this article too! I feel that in the BDSM world due to labels (D/s, pet, toy, Primal, …) the central issues are just not adressed very well. I see myself as a independent and strong woman, that loves to submit to the right man. As I do love humiliation and degradation (by the right man 😉 ) I wouldn’t consider myself Primal.
A few months ago though I had sex with someone in a very pure way. There was only skin and passion and comfort. Everything felt very natural and as you describe it above (swept off my feet, held, secured, and so on). I didn’t even think about the kinky stuff my mind usually wanders too. I think it was my first Primal encounter – in a way it also felt tantric if that makes sense.
So thanks again for sharing!