Nicole,

I don’t know you, but based on your blog; Bowie embraced and supported all those concepts and ideas you seem to love and hold dear; fearless identification with your attractions, opposition to “consensus reality” pursuit of your passions no matter how obtuse, refusal to be confined in anyones box…

sound familiar?

Maybe his music was too refined for your tastes?

When it comes to Bowie virgins I always tell them his medium is his message; no matter what you decide to be, make sure you OWN IT.