@Ruby, whatever two people in a relationship decide to do together is their business. However, what one chooses to do is usually motivated by their orientation and fantasies. These things don’t just pop into the mind from nowhere.

I did account for the rare cases in which it is just about the stimulation, but I’ve been around the block enough as a counselor to say that those cases are extremely rare. Usually, if a guy need a dick in his ass, he is Gay or Bi. There is also a wide difference between guys who may enjoy a finger on the prostate, and something the size of a dildo. Finger on the prostate guys are more into the wiggling than the thrusting.

I’m no prude, dear.

Gay, Homoflexible, and Bisexual men (who have been largely silenced in the conversation around pegging) do feel closer to their female partners who accept and find some joy in the activity. However, a guy should not go around thinking that it is common or that women are more okay with poop than most of us are.

I mean…if you ever once experienced the displeasure of pulling something out of a guy covered in mucous, trails of blood and some weird possible food remnants, and a bit of poo, you can see why a girl might develop an aversion if she didn’t have one to begin with.

Men should not be trying to sexually coerce women into being Gay men. That’s all I’m saying. When I enter a relationship with a man, that is not what I am signing up for.