@Yolo, I think you are the epitome of what Ironwynch is talking about. Men coercing women they supposedly care about into doing things they find repulsive with the threat of going to a man or hooker to get it. She only “gladly” pegs you to keep you around and probably hates herself after. When she finally gets the nerve to divorce your sorry ass I truly hope she explains to all your friends and family what the real reason was.