So I think that both parties have a point. I think that not all men that like pegging are gay, but there are definitely those men who may start by pegging and then come out of the closet because they wanted to creep out slowly. They may like men or both women and men. Then there are guys that are totally straight that do not think of a make penetrating them. I don’t think Iron Wynch is saying that there aren’t those men, it just seems that in her experience and from the amount of pegging enthusiasts she has met, the completely straight ones seem to be in the minority.

Now I’ll tell you my experience. I have naturally had the desire to submit to a woman sexually, emotionally ( if I feel comfortable) and financially one day if I can ( not to ruin me but control our finances make sure retirement will be good and spoil herself a bit more than she does me and a lot more if I am not following her orders). So pegging was not a natural desire for me. However when I started watching porn, my tastes went from more relaxed types of domination such as doing tasks for women, massaging and worshipping her feet and pussy, being spanked, and reprimanded, to many more extreme things like pain chastity etc. After I stopped watching porn my desires are now back to more service oriented submission and foot worship, pussy worship, etc. So my first point is that porn can alter sexual tastes.

My second point is that after trying pegging, I enjoyed some sessions and didn’t enjoy others HOWEVER, when I thank back to the times I enjoyed it I was enjoying it because I was thinking about the porn scenarios. As soon as I stopped watching porn, I didn’t enjoy the pegging. I even thought that I shouldn’t have to have her wear a dick for me to worship her, I should feel submissive to her sexually for her being a woman. Also when I was pegged I felt like I lost my sex drive for a couple weeks so me and my girlfriend were both not happy. And by the way I am decently alpha in real life ( work our, in med school to be a doc, etc. Etc.). However My submissive side had been more of a masculine submissive side such as foot massages, rubbing, and fucking her good because that’s what she wants. I make sure she cums first which to me is serving of me and then only do I cum. I have strong hands and massage her feet and body and eat her pussy even if she doesn’t give me head. I’ll still cook and clean for her and she does for me too. But the thing is when I serve her I get pleasure out of it. She thinks of me as masculine and dominant and I think of myself as submissive and serving her. So were both happy. If I dominate her in the bedroom it’s because that’s what she wants and I am still serving her. When I refrain from cumming it’s for her, so I can fuck her better. I’m still her bitch in every sense of the word. So we’re both happy like that. One day I hope I can have her control the money that I make in a productive way for both of us but spoil her a bit more. And I’m Dominant in the gym and in my career life and if a decision needs to be made I’ll make it. Tell me what you think about our situation. One thing I do want to do is drink her pee and we drink each other’s spit during sex.