i don’t need to make it better don’t need to believe it will get better or that everything will be alright or that there was some purpose to it that will be revealed later once i have healed i don’t need to hope that once these raw wounds have scabbed…
It is something all children of Oya, especially if you are intersex, nonbinary, or otherwise variable in gender, have to cope with if we survive long enough. Since there aren’t many elders left to discuss these things in English out in public, and more people are Vodun or at least…
I live my life with nothing to hide. I don’t mess with people who don’t mess with me. Truth be told, I don’t even give back a fraction of what some people who’ve harmed me or tried their damndest to, deserve. Over time though, I came to understand that here…
I am relieved and grateful that this last Mercury retrograde passed without anyone close to me experiencing major tragedies. Just as I thought I’d get away clear though, this past Tuesday, I lost my phone. It was my old faithful Samsung S5. It was in my top 5 material things…
I posted this mini essay and link for my friends who call themselves Christians or followers of Yeshua. Lately there has been a lot of spam circulating through the African and diaspora communities from nazis disguised as news about our concerns. So I wanted to make it clear who was…
That more people have come to accept the reality that fluid as it may be, patterns of gender and orientation are at least somewhat biologically in-born, and not always binary or aligned with classic sex roles, is a good thing. Now though, there is the question of just how much…
