Chivalry died because it was an illusion of the more privileged classes to begin with. It is reborn when masculine people use their privilege to dole it out in an egalitarian way. The 'nice guy' gets a bad rap these days because it's hard for many to tell who is actually compassionate and who is 'hedging their bets' or being manipulative. Experience has taught me that you have to look at how a masculine person treats beings they don't want to shag. If they are gentle, polite, and considerate of the shyness and sexual discretion of every feminine person they encounter regardless of looks or even assumed genitalia, that's genuine. That's how you tell the difference between the new age 'nice guys' and the nice guys of the new age.