Tag: love

Your love for yourself and your love for the Universe must be above the circumstances, before you can love another and create a relationship that is above the circumstances. Until you do, you will always be able to find an excuse based on the circumstances. via (187) Nicole Tanit Nefertaueret Lasher.

At some point, one has to know when it’s time to hang up the towel and quit while one is ahead. After about 10 years of being a loving person trying to navigate a very hostile dating market, I’m sort of emotionally back where I was about 23 years ago. Some of you out there…

you believed no one could understand and so it didn’t matter what i said nothing that i could have done compared to the drama you played out in your head as many times as i said that i could wait so long as there was something to wait for as many times as i said…

Don’t fear the vengeance or hatred of a woman whose heart you broke. The time for that fear, if ever, was before you got involved. After the fact, it’s just the price of doing business, and you should suck it up and take your knocks like a man. If a woman doesn’t hate you for…

(Gay) Male love, like loving a “lower” caste woman, is a revolutionary act. By love, I mean actual love, not just shagging. Because it’s not socially acceptable, people sort of expect you to do it on the downlow, and even if you’re publicly out, to be casual and promiscuous. To actually love the person society…

Once upon a time, there was a princess of a very small kingdom.  Twice in her life, suitors passed the customary tests and won her hand, but twice just as the time came to fully establish their claim, they lost interest.  The first saw bigger and more complex kingdoms just over the horizon, and was…