“On the friends thing, I suspect it is because many of us were brought up not to tease men. It can be dangerous or hurtful.”

You think thats it?
Maybe you misunderstood me?
Im not describing friendships with black females I want to fukc who won’t fukc me. Im talking about relationships with black females based on a foundation other than fukcing; you know, kinda like you and I are having on your blog?
I suggest black females start playing the entire “chess board” like white females do. It may be a cultural phenomenon taught to or learned by white females; but nevertheless, the seem to better understand and act on the fact that male utility extends far beyond the bedroom.
The single exception Ive found is married black females.