It wouldn’t surprise me. Ah well…

Since the new boyfriend, I’ve been refreshed on a few things. I told Fender about Roissy’s blog one day while we were talking to Kahuna (my little brother from another mother) about his game. He laughed pretty hard.

When he was done though, he said that for guys who need it, it’s a good thing that there are guys who write about these things. He’s pretty alpha, but has made some mistakes that if he’d had warning, he could have easily avoided. His dad was more the severely criminal alpha type, so he didn’t get much balanced guidance, and his expectations and therefore his standards for women’s behavior were too low when he was younger. He did more enforcing than filtering.

So he says if I’m going to be there at all, it’s best to keep my posts limited to my perspective, and make it more clear that this is all I’m offering. This means my contributions will be about things that are specific to my type or myself, and not much else. Since most guys there aren’t looking for someone like me, and the ones who might be seldom admit it, it won’t be relevant to the seriously lost, and will pass under their radar.

Seems to be working well so far.