Thank you for that. I’d like you to be happy too.

Question…what is it about your beliefs that has Obsidian all negative? I missed something in the lead-up to the pronouncement.

IMO, sometimes he gets a little gruffy and impatient, but that’s just one of those man things. I do think you believe some of the hype that keeps a lot of good women in the dark, but you seem open to new perspectives. One thing you have to come to understand though is that those of us who are the deep feeling, marrying type, have traps set for us to kind of hide us from marks that more exploitive types of women want.

The whole Barbie = beauty thing is one of them. The one thing anybody can say without a doubt that all men like is variety. Little else that isn’t a defect, and even some things that are, can be held up as the most preferred thing.

Granted, many men are cogs in the machine and will praise the cookie cutter Hollywood ideal to the sky, but very few of them are truly brainwashed enough to buy it fully.

I was an adult webmaster for a few years. I know what guys will pay to see, and that is *every* kind of woman there is, and for a smaller percentage, every kind of man too.