I did write a post about this topic and I must admit that are so many aspects to this ‘title’ and so many different variations that not all of them can/could be covered. My initial reason for “Why Do Men Cheat With Ugly Women” was to stimulate opinions while also allowing myself to vent about my own, personal. “ugly” situation.

When men cheat, women are always taken back as to why the man ‘dates down’ or ‘cheats down’. It’s no secret that no matter how ‘attractive’ the other woman is, women are always going to consider them ugly. This is sometimes contributed to jealousy or more less a defense mechanism to save what self-esteem is left. “I can’t believe he cheated on me with that ugly floozy”.

What women do not realize is that when a man’s weenie slaps the ‘other woman’ in the face, it seldom has anything to do with physical attributes. We’ve all seen it, the man who is in a committed relationship with the runway model but dips his donkey into the ‘homely pool’.

There isn’t enough time in the day to explain the true reasons men ‘date down’ but the quickest way to sum it up is this- Physical beauty is the least most important attribute. If all men who cheat only went after beautiful women, showing no concern for her ability in the bedroom or her ability to feed his ‘main’ hunger or ‘desire’, then he possibly would end up in the same situation that led him to cheat in the first place.

The ‘other’ woman is not who he is parading around with, she is not his arm candy…she is usually somewhat hidden and underneath the radar. It’s pretty obvious that the ‘other woman’ is fulfilling a need that goes beyond appearance and personally, if ‘appearance’ was such a major attribute…he probably would have not had the desire to stray in the first place.