Occidental, we married 12 years ago, but for the past 6 years, he has aged out. Every man reaches a certain age when what he needs works, and what he doesn’t really get into, doesn’t work. Hormones are not high enough to bridge the gap anymore.

It’s the best argument in the world not to settle, but not to marry with sex as the highest priority either. It might not happen to a guy until 90, but it could happen as early as 45. You just never know, even if a guy is very healthy and has a normal testosterone level.