Oh yea, Y,
If you will kindly recall I was very careful not to lump in all “swirlers” into the same boat. What I was focused on, were those who “swirl with anger” aimed at Black Men. This was the point of my post about Jasmin. I was never talking about you, although Nicole’s right, it is important to note the horror stories of “swirling” as much as the success stories, and i notice that the Natashas and Jasmins of the world don’t tend to do that. They tend to “oversell” the whole “swirl” thing, and I think that runs the risk of really harming a lot of Sistas out there.

There’s more that I could say, but that’s really it in a nutshell.

O.