how much of what you wrote is based on your own experience or best-friends-experience and how much is based on “things you heard”?

i mean, i’m israeli, in my late 30’s, and if that’s what mirrors my society then
a. it explains a lot of things
b. it is very very sad. because –
c. there are many many men who hate playing this game, who never ask for any kind of power or advantage, who get attached quite easily. so this relationship game is the demise of my society. so –
d. no, we don’t like it this way