The Black Dominatrix: Empowering or Not?
Sometimes things that seem empowering because “everyone” says they should be, turn out to be very disempowering. For a woman to dominate a man from time to time is natural, and when natural, empowering for them both. The woman gets to act out her nature without hiding, and the man gets to admire a woman…
The World Will Not Dull or Soften
The world will not dull or soften just for you. Your claws and teeth must sharpen for the world.
What is the Primal Fetish?
[caption id="attachment_756" align="alignright" width="193"] Having a little fun before a ceremony for the Love Goddess Oshun.[/caption] [sc name="responsivevoice" ]Very few sites answer this in an adequate way, so I thought I would give it a go. First of all, I’d like to say that for those of us who are sexually primal, it isn’t a…
Sexy Photo: Potato Salad
At like 0200 I started making some potato salad just because. I do stuff like that sometimes. It’s going to make an excellent lunch for the family.
Cultural Differences, Malice, and Stupidity
I am still reeling from the disorientation of learning the differences between a gigantic sexual market and a tiny one. In the U.S. I was considered very cool and easygoing. Here, I’m clingy, obsessive, and paranoid. Sometimes I freeze someone out or say something incredibly ill timed and stupid just because I don’t know what…