[sc name="responsivevoice" ] It is something all children of Oya, especially if you are intersex, nonbinary, or otherwise variable in gender, have to cope with if we survive long enough. Since there aren’t many elders left to discuss these things in English out in public, and more people are Vodun or at least Yoruba pantheon…
[sc name="responsivevoice" ] Updated September 23, 2023. I have officially stopped giving a fuck. I think I’ve reached that age where it’s not that I forgive people who’ve hurt me the way that forgiveness is often interpreted. I just reach a point where I’d rather just kind of forget that they exist, and part of…
[sc name="responsivevoice" ] I am relieved and grateful that this last Mercury retrograde passed without anyone close to me experiencing major tragedies. Just as I thought I’d get away clear though, this past Tuesday, I lost my phone. It was my old faithful Samsung S5. It was in my top 5 material things that I…
I posted this mini essay and link for my friends who call themselves Christians or followers of Yeshua. Lately there has been a lot of spam circulating through the African and diaspora communities from nazis disguised as news about our concerns. So I wanted to make it clear who was us and who is not…
[sc name="responsivevoice" ] That more people have come to accept the reality that fluid as it may be, patterns of gender and orientation are at least somewhat biologically in-born, and not always binary or aligned with classic sex roles, is a good thing. Now though, there is the question of just how much and when…
[sc name="responsivevoice" ] There is a lot I’ve avoided writing about in the name of not showing anyone where my heart is. I write a lot about romantic/sexual relationships as if they are so important. They are kind of important in terms of being a basis of society, but to me, in and of themselves,…