Stuff that’s happened.
The ability to think long term is generally considered an advantage with no downside. It is very useful in that it enables one to delay gratification. Rather than focussing on immediate rewards, one can devise strategies that will bring greater rewards in the future. Coupled with a very realistic worldview, it makes one, inasmuch as…
[caption id="attachment_355" align="alignleft" width="225" caption="April 2, 2011 Swimming in my clothes"][/caption] The gloom seems to have been a phase. Since that day, I seem to be well sorted and strangely more attractive. Perhaps not sexually so, but sentimentally, which is fine. Even my dance has shifted a bit. I was using mostly Arab music, but…
As you can probably tell, I was feeling pretty gloomy during my last blog post. Taking some time to really get into my feelings though, I’ve realized that it’s not exactly fear that I’m feeling. It’s a healthy respect for men, manhood, and the possible damage they can do to me and that I could…
A few years into staring into the abyss, I’ve learned a lot that has disturbed me, but helped me greatly. Now I understand things that confused me before…mostly things I used to take personally, but then realized were “just business” or rather just biology. I’m tapering off my exposure because most of it is kind…
Yesterday, I actually found myself sitting in my livingroom with Wizard, GothicAnne, and whodathunkit Vegeta. Yeah. …only now, he’s hit the Moroccan wall. No more Gay porn ad cutie. He’s now a big hairy normal guy. No wait, a big, hairy normal guy with a lisp and t-rex hands. How the mighty have fallen in…
Some time ago, Cuz (the Catholic taxi driver turned accountant) offered to give me an apartment in an attempt to get back in. I declined because though I could see being the mistress of a discreetly but honestly polygamous man, I’m not going to be the life support system of a failing monogamy. I’m also not…