A Woman’s Worth

A bad woman can drag a man to hell without blinking in remorse.

A good woman however, is worth more than gold.  This is why men will give cash money to one who may not be so good in the traditionally religious sense, but at least gives a little comfort and release.  What’s a little money compared to someone’s arms and legs around you?  Or if you’re freaky, allowing you to indulge whatever delicious perversion delights you?

A good woman, even if she may not have or may not have been allowed to save herself for you until she met you, saves herself for you when she belongs to you.  If you had any idea how difficult it is on this planet, not to get taken in by the tides of relationship destroying trends, and the lechery of richer men, you would value your woman’s loyalty much, much more…and you’d be less willing to take a woman waiting to belong to you for granted.

Think of all the men a woman you’re attracted to knows.  No matter what she looks like, at least 90% of them would hit that.  Half of those would hit that even if she was wearing an engagement ring from you.  They are all waiting for you to hesitate, screw up, go on a break, neglect her…something.  As soon as you flinch, they are back in the game, and you might lose if she isn’t very strong.

You did not invent wanting to shag or even loving someone who isn’t perfect.

You can’t sleep on any of us.

I’m not saying you should keep us prisoners under lock and key.  I’m not saying you should spoil us.  In fact, don’t spoil us because we’ll hate you for it.  Still, every time your woman walks out the door, she should be wearing the equivalent of a “taken” sign.  Everybody who sees her should know she belongs to someone and doesn’t need anything *anything* from anyone else.

Are other men seeing the worry in your woman’s eyes about her future?  Okay, so not everybody’s a millionaire…but are they seeing the worry in her eyes about her future with you?

You better fix that, or Nature will fix you.


My pronouns are whatever you're comfortable with as long as you speak to me with respect. I'm an Afruikan and Iswa refugee living in Canaan. That's African American expat in Israel in Normalian. I build websites, make art, and assist people in exercising their spirituality. I'm also the king of an ile, Baalat Teva, a group of African spirituality adherents here. Feel free to contact me if you are in need of my services or just want to chat.

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