This one is the usual R&B slow jams playlist. It’s got some of the old and some of the new up in here. I have a rule of no depressing songs on my playlists of this purpose. You don’t need to be hearing about breakups and marital problems when you’re trying to get it on.…
Men complain about shit testing, and women complain about negging, but these things are extremely important in mate selection. On the surface, the reason women shit test is to filter out overly compliant men and attract more masculine self assured men. Men neg to filter out under-nurturing women, and attract compliant women who are actually…
There’s your temperament and your culture, your nurture, your environment. I’m an identical twin and we’re not exactly alike. No two people are alike. What’s really interesting, and the most important scientific thing in my lifetime, is an understanding of epigenetics. We are beginning to understand how the environment turns genes on and off and…
Primal Friends As the Primal “fetish” community grows, I am noticing a rather disturbing trend to oversimplify our relationships to Predator vs. prey. It’s like people are trying so hard to fit us into conventional BDSM boxes. Prey is what you eat or farm to consume. Some like to…
Before we start, I will warn you that in this article, there will be many sweeping generalizations about men and women. If you are gender-queer in some way, feel free to replace those words with masculine or feminine participant, or Top/bottom or whatever. Let’s not lose the point in tangents about terminology. Also,…
The elaborate rules and rituals that permeate the BDSM subculture, which definitely involves the active and ongoing seeking of consent of its largely submissive and female participants on the part of its largely dominant and male participants during a sexual encounter or session, is something that, in theory, everyone could benefit from. Of all the…
