Step right up, folks! Welcome to a world where disagreement in a discussion means harassment, following a link means cyberstalking, and posting a photo, even by mistake, in your blog without wasting the author’s bandwidth is a copyright violation warranting shutting down your site. This is the world of Bene Viera, a writer on Essence.com. As you…
In light of the recent buzz on “swirling” (White man/Black woman interracial relationships), I’ve decided to post some tips from someone who’s been there. Much like the cougar trend, it’s not really a trend. It’s just something that has become more socially acceptable, and is receiving a fair bit of hype, but that most people…
It has come to light that the fact of Obsidian’s blog being taken out happening on the tail of the swirling discussion was just a matter of coincidence. The true culprit is a “repressed” writer who believes people shouldn’t be allowed to critique her articles: Bene Viera. To get an idea of how petty she is,…
The last year of my 30s.