Being loveable is a skill.
People with little experience of being loved want and perhaps even NEED to downplay that fact.
Being loveable is a skill.
Nobody deserves love. We are not newborn babies and I’m not some mothers nipple. We earn it, through our actions.
By adding value. By being happy and sharing happiness. By feeling content and sharing contentedness. By adding value in every possible way that our lover can appreciate.
You can’t ask someone to love you. You can’t expect someone to love you.
If he enjoys being around you and if you make him happy, the emotions will follow.
Guys have the same issue. People walk around with negativity as their default mode of being. They are not happy people. They are not finding girls who love them, because…
They are not loveable people!
via I’m not obligated to love you. « Random Xpat Rantings.
:: standing ovation ::
Yes Lord!
A few of my ex boyfriends should memorize this post.
