Dudes need to understand something about young looking older women: we’re still older. There is not enough of our life left to waste time we could be spending making the world a better place or money to make sure our grandchildren can pursue their dreams.
It is a fact that we older ladies indeed cannot game as we did in our 20’s. We will miss out on a lot of D being hard to get. However, unless you ejaculate votes or your erections can bend time to give more hours in a day, the antipathy is mutual.
You will greatly increase your chances of actually getting time with an older woman if you do things that help her to have the time for you. Your erections can bend time in a way if someone willing to invest in her life is standing behind them. This is true for all genders.
The idea of femininity is socially constructed and dependent to a large degree on luxury to exist beyond biological functions. We gotta bleed a few days a month. We don’t gotta get our hair or nails done or cook more than a salad and a burger.
The world can be very wonderful, but also very cruel. Different women and feminine people will have different experiences, largely based on status and the grace or lack thereof, of our caretakers. Most of us learn pretty quick that beauty without status makes one a target.
Depending on the feminine person (regardless of genital situation), what you intend as flattery can be received as a statement of intent to exploit. We don’t know what it is until some investment happens or doesn’t. It doesn’t have to be money. It can just be helpful.
If you don’t know what you can do to help a feminine person afford to stay feminine, then you don’t know them “like that” and need to keep it in your pants. Otherwise you’re just volunteering for rejection. I say this as someone with 2 brothers. I seen y’all confusion.
On this planet, and especially on the internet, until you are ready and willing to invest in a feminine person’s life, for which we are professionally and security-wise penalized, you are just invisible. When you overstep with no desire to invest, you become part of the penalty.
One crucial thing to understand about older women/femmes is that most of us have had our fill of being penalized for being feminine. Between maybe 35-50, we have that moment we throw some appliances across a kitchen at an unappreciative fucknard, and that’s it.
I remember my big jenanna (feminine rage episode). I remember yelling, “I told you from the beginning, I’ll be a fucking widow! I’ll do the time with a smile. Don’t fuck with me.” Not ideal behavior by any stretch. I was tired and had been through too much to get punished for it.
So yeah, we are more experienced. We’ve experienced people who talk and talk and talk and talk and suck time like vampires while doing utterly nothing for us. Femininity is seen by way too many people as an invitation to demand free therapy, nurturing randoms, and sexting.
