The Black Dominatrix: Empowering or Not?

Sometimes things that seem empowering because “everyone” says they should be, turn out to be very disempowering. For a woman to dominate a man from time to time is natural, and when natural, empowering for them both.  The woman gets to act out her nature without hiding, and the man gets to admire a woman…

What is the Primal Fetish?

The Bootay

[caption id="attachment_756" align="alignright" width="193"] Having a little fun before a ceremony for the Love Goddess Oshun.[/caption] [sc name="responsivevoice" ]Very few sites answer this in an adequate way, so I thought I would give it a go. First of all, I’d like to say that for those of us who are sexually primal, it isn’t a…

Sexy Photo: Potato Salad

At like 0200 I started making some potato salad just because.  I do stuff like that sometimes. It’s going to make an excellent lunch for the family.

Cultural Differences, Malice, and Stupidity

I am still reeling from the disorientation of learning the differences between a gigantic sexual market and a tiny one.  In the U.S. I was considered very cool and easygoing.  Here, I’m clingy, obsessive, and paranoid.  Sometimes I freeze someone out or say something incredibly ill timed and stupid just because I don’t know what…

This Vibrator Explains A Lot

This Vibrator Looks Like An Electric Toothbrush From Hell And Promises ‘Third-Level’ Orgasms | Elite Daily. OUCH!!! Dudes.  I understand that when you meet a girl who seems like she’s been ridden on the Tour de Pants, you might have to use a bit of extra elbow grease to get things going, but not all…