The Amazing Twisted Sister

Step right up, folks!  Welcome to a world where disagreement in a discussion means harassment, following a link means cyberstalking, and posting a photo, even by mistake, in your blog without wasting the author’s bandwidth is a copyright violation warranting shutting down your site. This is the world of Bene Viera, a writer on Essence.com.  As you…

It is ON! Essence Forum Discussion on Bene Viera’s Thought Policing

Updated July 28, 2014 A few years ago, I started a discussion at the Essence.com community forum entitled Should a Black Man Be Allowed to Disagree? What set it off was Bene Viera and some others deciding that Obsidian didn’t have the right to speak his mind about the state of relationships in the African American community.…

Hell Hath No Fury

It has come to light that the fact of Obsidian’s blog being taken out happening on the tail of the swirling discussion was just a matter of coincidence.  The true culprit is a “repressed” writer who believes people shouldn’t be allowed to critique her articles: Bene Viera. To get an idea of how petty she is,…

Why Dorks Pick on Fatties

In the military, many of us get the advice to be very mindful that when you fire a shot, you are giving away your position. Spend enough time on the internet, and you’ll encounter reams of text on the horror that is the fat woman.  According to many anonymous yet apparently intellectual males, not only…