And Nicole – I suspect our reasons for being in the Roissysphere are fairly similar – we are both trying to get a handle on how men work. But you know as well as I do that although Roissy is right to point out the flaws in the pretty lies, what he puts up to replace them are exaggerated, and not the full story either, he uses hyperbole to make his point, the truth is somewhere between the two poles. Also, we both have to avoid an inclination to believe everything we hear that is bad news for us, we have to be more objective & keep our natural instinct for self-criticism at bay.